Poland is one of Germany’s neighbors, but there are cultural differences between the two countries. In this article we will give you tips on how to behave properly when traveling through Poland.
Poland inspires travelers with its enchanting landscape and several lively metropolises that are teeming with culture and fun. This is not least due to the Poles themselves: They are warm, open and very hospitable. Nevertheless, there are a few things about Polish culture that you’d better hear in advance. We tell you what you should have in mind.
A country of the old style
As a Central European country, Poland’s habits and customs are similar to ours in many ways. At first glance, some things seem a bit out of date: The kiss on the hand is no longer as common as it was a few decades ago. However, it is still seen much more frequently than in Germany, for example. Young men are also reflecting on this expression of respect for women. Holding doors open, taking off one’s coat and other traditional rituals are also much more common in Poland than in Germany.
However, with the exception of these peculiarities, almost the same formalities apply in Poland as in Germany. Handshakes are the standard (even for women) and cheek kisses are given to friends, family members and other confidants. You address strangers with Pani (woman) and Pan (man) before the first or last name. Under no circumstances should you address the other person by their bare last name or, even worse, by their job title (waiter, driver, etc.). As soon as you move on to the you, this is of course no longer necessary. If a person is important to you or you have close contact with him/her, you should find out when your new acquaintance celebrates his/her name day. This day is almost more important than the birthday in Catholic Poland.
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Religiosity in Poland
Which brings us to an important topic: Poland is a very religious country. Over 90 percent of the population is religious, and about 50 percent practice their faith. That is significantly more than in Germany: In this country, about 60 percent are in Christian churches, and about 39 percent are undenominational. Accordingly, it is a bad idea in Poland to joke about the church or even to spark a discussion about religion.
Another irritating topic is the current political situation in Poland and the Second World War. Poland as a nation has a turbulent past. Accordingly, such discussions are also conducted passionately. If you do not have a deep stock of knowledge on these topics, it is best to just listen and ask interested questions. You will most likely learn something new.
Guest in the house, God in the house
Poles are proud to be one of the most hospitable countries in the world – and they’re probably pretty right about that. A popular Polish saying is “Guest in the house, God in the house”. Accordingly, in Poland you can look forward to richly laid tables and generally very warm, courteous hospitality. The best way to show your appreciation is to praise your hosts often and lavishly and to give them small gifts: flowers, chocolates or a souvenir from your home country will open their hearts.
We wish you a lot of fun on your trip to Poland!
